When I was a kid, I went through a phase where I thought it was pretty funny to flash people, mostly my own peers.
That’s basically because I wasn’t mentally stable,
Actually, it was because I was objectified and scrutinized for having big boobs, and it sucked to be bullied. It sucked to have people comment on your breasts in front of your teachers, or lie and tell people you stuffed your bra when the truth was, those babies were/are real.
So when I got sick of it, I found it funny to whip them out. I basically thought I was giving the world a big, “Fuck you,” because I was a confused young teen. The humor and ridiculous assumption of empowerment I got from this little trick died when one day, as I chose to flash on a dare, a car slowed down in front of me.
The man driving the car looked at me, and he was old my friends. Not old because I was a young girl assuming he looked old and was really only 25, but old like late forties, early fifties.
I ran away, with my friends behind me, fearing that the man driving the car would get out.
He didn’t, and I wasn’t abducted, but had many bad sexual experiences after that in case you’re taking score. Needless to say, I never flashed a car again.
But now that my boobs are safely in my bra where they belong, and I am a productive citizen and mother, you would figure I would not attract any weird people or men around me.
You would figure wrong.
So since I am such a gracious citizen and can’t waste those 60 plus credits of psychology coursework and research, I have decided to share my amazing tips with you!
How to Attract Weirdos Without Flashing Them: A go-to guide
#1 Be Nice.
If you want to attract weirdos, just be nice. Start conversations with strangers, and then because you have no clue how to run or can’t–trapped in a small cafe or store, just keep talking and don’t tell them to shut up, especially if you’re female. Remember ladies, being nice is the only way to be! There’s only bad karma if you tell people where to go or assert yourself. You’re supposed to put up with it. Besides, if you want to meet a good weirdo, you’ve got to talk to as many people as possible.
Smile at anyone, and the weirdest folks will find you sexy or approachable. If you find a homeless guy telling you all about the days when he played with Miles Davis, his invisible friends, and other delusions, you know you have a great smile.
#3 Go Places Alone
Weirdos like loners. It’s like cookies and milk, darling. If you go out by yourself, weirdos figure you’re weird and unlikable too, so they approach you more often. If you’re in a group of people, weirdos will shy away as they won’t have the guts to corner you and talk your ear off about their stamp collection and the time they saw Jesus while buying mums for their dead grandmother.
#4 Smell a little
Bad smells give off a sign that you are unstable, which simply attracts more unstable people. Hold off on the deodorant and antiperspirant. Besides, the aluminum ingredients in most brands is a chemical to be wary of.
*let it be known I have never tried this particular step.
#5 Bring along a child
Weirdos like to stop people with kids because they feel you will be more compassionate.
Chances are, you are less likely to tell the person to f*ck off because you don’t want your kid having a potty mouth, unless her or she already does.
Last crucial step
#6 Have no boundaries
I stranger once tried to kiss me at a cafe.
I didn’t let him.
I moved away (obviously).
But if you really want a weirdo to kiss you three seconds after you’ve asked them, “Hey do you know where the napkins are,” be sure to have no boundaries. Sit very close to them and try to hold their hands. Weirdos like that.
I hope we have all learned a little about weirdo attraction etiquette. I am so glad I can bless the world with my amazing knowledge.