Last power blog of the night.
I read something awesome by the amazing Esther Perel, who said simply, “Sex is not politically correct.”
As a person of feminist standings, I certainly don’t want to be forced to stay barefoot in a kitchen, but when we have sex, all of those notions of “correctness” are dropped, or should be dropped.
Sex is the place to play–it’s the place to be submissive, dominant, raunchy, loud, and whatever else your desire leads you to. Gender and power roles…costuming…whatever the case may be, sex is supposed to be playful and not follow the same rules that life outside the bedroom asks us to abide by.
This doesn’t mean people should engage in acts of molestation or with animals…god forbid, but just that it is okay to revert roles, be wild, or simply “politically incorrect” when having sex.
Perel states that sex is the playroom for adults and that many of us have forgotten how to play. With respect, love, and a lot of fun, sex can be rewarding when it is most playful and incorrect.
Think about it.
Love and Kittens,