Grieving a divorce isn’t exactly fun. People want you to hurry up and get over it already! That or they’re married and don’t understand that it isn’t a breakup — it is a death when you lose your spouse. Your family, your dreams, your effort, your money — you name it, you have lost it all. If only there was a proper burial to get through it and start to move on. Well, there isn’t, but I did make this nifty little checklist in hopes to help other people grieving a divorce.

Signed,

From the Trenches of Grief

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Taking it Day by Day,

Laura