It would be nice if I met someone to have fun with and enjoy life with. A sexy companion as it were.
That’s where I am at in the whole “dating after divorce” world.
Joy. Fun. Sex. Traveling. Passion. Competition–not against each other, but with each other. Conversation. Commitment– but at an adult level. Two people complementing each other, not completing each other.
I’m not looking for a dad for my daughter. She’s got one thanks. And as far as getting married again? Maybe. I’m not against it.
But what I am against is dating someone in an effort to complete myself. That’s not needed. I’m good as is, on my own.
However, there are a lot of people separating and divorcing who just fly into the next relationship only for it to flop horrifically. I’ve seen it happen time and again, and watched as people said, “Why did this happen?”
You didn’t date yourself first.
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