I meet a lot of martyrs.
“My life is the worst.”
“My ex is the worst.”
Out in the world of divorced men and women and almost divorced men and women, there are a lot of Debbie and Davvy Downers.
I’m not saying that going through a divorce has made me happy 24/7, but that there were three things, three game changers that I did in order to be happy after divorce.
Someone please tell me: Did you go through the heartaches of divorce only to be unhappy once again? Because I thought the point of getting a divorce was to change your life for the better.
I am not denying the devastations of divorce. Financially, it has been hard.
For my child, it has been hard. There were intense moments of grief. With the holidays coming up, I am sure there will be hard moments for myself and my child.