I write with a heavy heart today that as I near the end of the divorce process — complete with an already signed property settlement agreement — things have turned not so amicable anymore.
I was proud for a long time of how amicable things were between my ex and me. I felt like, “Hey we didn’t get it right in marriage but we’re getting right in divorce.”
At least we were, getting it right.
There is a huge grief and loss in knowing that it has become so sad and despondent of a situation.
Is it inevitable that all divorce turns angry, uncomfortable and stressful?
If you asked me a few months ago, I would have told you no but now, I fear for the worst.
It’s not that we are having big parking lot arguments or phone calls to lawyers. Instead there is silence. Messages not returned.
It Will Get Better Again,