How you love, live and seduce in the bedroom says a lot about your personality. The bedroom is a place of play, intimacy, and secrecy in many aspects for your average adult. Even though many of us have many different facets and aspects to our personality, the bedroom can reveal sides of ourselves that no one else has seen before, other than our partners.
So what really can your bedroom style say about your sex personality? More than you would care to admit.
A person who is domineering in bed is behaving as such for two reasons: lacking power in his or her real life, or craves power in all aspects of his or her world.
For the person craving power, he or she may be having issues at work or be unemployed. He or she might be under financial stress or having to make personal sacrifices that he or she doesn’t want to do. Perhaps it’s a woman who spent years with a controlling and abusive man and she now wants to reclaim power. Perhaps it’s a man who was cheated on and emasculated by a former wife or partner. Gaining his mojo back requires a little power in-between the sheets.
The bedroom is then a place to earn back some pride and power in a life of feeling powerless. Sex and the bedroom are separate domains to “get it back” and feel confident again. It can make an underdog a hero again, at least in the bedroom sense of “hero.”
What Type Are You?