Divorce can be extremely difficult, but as the process is finalized it can be extremely peaceful . . . or at the least, even in the midst of the stress and strain, it can be a positive event. For many people, the toughest part is in the first two stages: the first is when you are deciding whether to divorce or not. The decision to divorce can be harder than the divorce itself, as you’re filled with anxiety and sadness. The second stage is the separation process in which both parties begin to cut ties.
Divorce shouldn’t be considered trivial or an easy way out of a marriage, because more times than not it takes immense bravery to divorce and move forward with your life. But once you’re over the tough part, there are so many reasons divorce can bring you happiness.
1. No More Doubt
That period when we were deciding whether to divorce or not was so hard. It was full of anxiety, sadness, confusion, and pain. I can’t express enough how difficult that period was for me and, I am sure, my ex. Making the decision to divorce was hard because we had invested years together and had a child. My divorce made me happier and, I am sure, him as well, simply because the decision was made and we could move forward.
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To A New Life!