If you’re divorced, it’s normal to wonder if you’re going to ever love someone again and have that person love you.
Doubting love and the longevity of relationships is normal. But if you’re one of those people who have decided that you want to try dating after divorce and find a lasting love, you need to make sure you’re approaching love the right way, and not from dysfunction.
Many of us struggle with issues such as trust, confidence and commitment after our marriages fail, but it’s how you manage those issues that make you succeed — or lose — in love.
Here are 9 ways you keep yourself from finding love after divorce.
1. You have flimsy boundaries with your ex.
You’re divorced, but your boundaries with your ex are fragile. You two are too invested in each other’s lives, or perhaps, you’re too invested in continuing to fight with each other.
This type of emotional friction keeps you from finding love. You need to stop the battle or stop the emotional investment in your ex in order to move on.
Your Own Worst Enemy- YOU!