Have you ever wondered if you’re being sensitive or that your love interest or partner may be upset with you? Or worse, over you?
We all have our moments of paranoia and insecurity, but is your partner or love interest really done with you?
There’s no real definitive way to tell without asking the person, but here are some things that your love flame, interest or partner may do if he or she is upset with you or bored and done with you.
1. Not Ask How You Are Doing– Less Inquisitive
If your love stops asking how you are or just doesn’t seem to ask you many questions about how you’re doing, what you’re up to and where you’re going, that’s a bad sign.
However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or over you, but perhaps your love is:
Stressed over other things happening?
Having a busy day at work?
Keep these things in mind! It’s not always about you.
2. Retreat Physically and Emotionally
Does your interest seem less affectionate? Does your partner withhold sex?
These are pretty strong signs that something is happening, whether it has to do with you or not. And yes, there is a good chance the person is over you or mad at you.
However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or had it with you, but perhaps your love is:
Upset over his or her weight/body image
Stressed and retreating– needing space to deal
Dealing with financial pressures or family issues
Again– a conversation could really clear the area.
3. Complain About Things
This is a big one! Unhappy love interests and spouses will complain about little BS and nit-pick!
If this scenario rings a bell, welp! Hang tight. You’ll need to address your lover.
However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or done with you, but perhaps your love is:
Unhappy with him or herself
Frustrated over a situation
Needing more support
Stressed at work
Either way, if this is happening, have a conversation with your loved one asap.
4. Claim Boredom
If your partner is claiming boredom or your love interest says he or she is feeling restless, ask why.
It may be that the two of you aren’t busting out of your routine, or that your partner or love interest feels neglected. This could be an easy solve– with nice open communication!
However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or losing feelings for you, but perhaps your love is:
Bored with him/herself
Unchallenged at work
Feeling restless and just needing a little change
Needing more sexual attention
Again– talking about things is best! You’re not psychic (most likely) and neither is your partner.
Be open to discussing things.
Talk Isn’t Cheap,