4 Signs Your Love Interest or Partner Is Bored, Upset or Over You

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Have you ever wondered if you’re being sensitive or that your love interest or partner may be upset with you? Or worse, over you?

We all have our moments of paranoia and insecurity, but is your partner or love interest really done with you?

There’s no real definitive way to tell without asking the person, but here are some things that your love flame, interest or partner may do if he or she is upset with you or bored and done with you.

1.  Not Ask How You Are Doing– Less Inquisitive

If your love stops asking how you are or just doesn’t seem to ask you many questions about how you’re doing, what you’re up to and where you’re going, that’s a bad sign.

However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or over you, but perhaps your love is:

Distracted?

Stressed over other things happening?

Having a busy day at work?

Keep these things in mind! It’s not always about you.

2. Retreat Physically and Emotionally

Does your interest seem less affectionate? Does your partner withhold sex?

These are pretty strong signs that something is happening, whether it has to do with you or not. And yes, there is a good chance the person is over you or mad at you.

However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or had it with you, but perhaps your love is:

Upset over his or her weight/body image

Stressed and retreating– needing space to deal

Dealing with financial pressures or family issues

Again– a conversation could really clear the area.

3. Complain About Things

This is a big one! Unhappy love interests and spouses will complain about little BS and nit-pick!

If this scenario rings a bell, welp! Hang tight. You’ll need to address your lover.

However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or done with you, but perhaps your love is:

Unhappy with him or herself

Frustrated over a situation 

Feeling neglected

Needing more support

Stressed at work

Either way, if this is happening, have a conversation with your loved one asap.

4. Claim Boredom

If your partner is claiming boredom or your love interest says he or she is feeling restless, ask why.

It may be that the two of you aren’t busting out of your routine, or that your partner or love interest feels neglected. This could be an easy solve– with nice open communication!

However, your partner or interest may not be upset with you or losing feelings for you, but perhaps your love is:

Bored with him/herself

Unchallenged at work

Feeling restless and just needing a little change

Needing more sexual attention

Again– talking about things is best! You’re not psychic (most likely) and neither is your partner.

Be open to discussing things.

Talk Isn’t Cheap,

Laura

2 thoughts on “4 Signs Your Love Interest or Partner Is Bored, Upset or Over You

  1. AD says:

    Good post…. To your point, best to ask key questions directly to your partner that need to be ask so the two of you can try and work to resolve the issue or make an inform decision to move on, so you’re not wasting their time and vice versa… However, the worst thing to do is not have any communication with your partner about what might be wrong, if you feel they have been distant as of late, since nothing changes if nothing changes.

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