You’ve cried a billion times over this man. He makes minimal effort to make your relationship work. Or, he avoids commitment and just wants to hang out. Or, he continues to hurt you and doesn’t seem to want to change.
Why won’t he change?
Simply put, he doesn’t want to.
Yes— gasp! Horrible isn’t it? It is, but he likes being who he is.
People only change under two conditions:
- They want to
- They’re forced to.
But most importantly, they want to.
If your man doesn’t want to change, guess what?
He doesn’t care about you, he’s happy where he is, maybe lazy but even still— there is nothing you can do to change him.
So, you’re sick of crying. He’s disappointed you enough. He never prioritizes you and he’s cool hanging out, hooking up sometimes, or being committed but not being very good to you.
What do you do?
You leave him.
You just leave him. Let him behave foolishly with someone else. Let him lose you. This forces him to change or forces you to seek out someone who loves you.
Someone who really cares about you will be motivated to do better. Be better. To change. To be the man you need.
And someone who does nothing, doesn’t care. Doesn’t want you. Doesn’t need you. And doesn’t care if you cry.
You deserve better!