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There is nothing more joyous than owning your own happiness and realizing how worthy you are.
When you do, it suddenly becomes so easy to laugh off bad partners. To say goodbye to men or women who don’t appreciate you or your value. To not want someone who makes a crappy effort or half-ass effort to be in your life.
It just becomes clear overnight– yes, really— that you deserve better.
So, when your ex comes a calling with same lame offer to Netflix and chill or when some guy or gal who doesn’t really appreciate you wants to hang out– but not commit to you or date and show you how important you are to them–
It’s easy to say, “Thanks, but no thanks.”
For me, there is only one relationship, one situation worth entering into:
The one where the person really makes an effort, is excited to see me and be with me and enjoys being with me.
I am not interested in situationships. I am not interested in being someone’s option. I am not interested in being your or anyone’s friend with benefits.
I am only interested in someone who sees spending time with me as enjoyable and a MUST. Someone who really likes me and finds me fun to be around and wants to get to know me better.
Someone who knows how to ask someone on a date and follow through. Someone who is a good friend, too and caring.
Someone who sees my VALUE. Someone who sees me as so valuable, that he appreciates any second of my time.
That is all I am interested in.
Everyone else, can take their offers elsewhere. My price tag will not be on sale or reduced.
K? Thx. Bye,