Are you in love, or is it just hormones?
I asked someone this, who I really cared about.
I was trying to decide: Did I really love this man or was I simply just, well, drunk on oxytocin and other various hormones?
I mean, the person in question is incredibly attractive. Great body. Beautiful face. Even better touch.
All of those factors could have meant my feelings were really just hormones and hot-in the pants and not necessarily, straight from the heart. Although let’s be real: a good relationship requires “hot in the pants” and “straight from the heart.”
I found my answer though, when I went down this little list of mine. Here are a few ways to tell whether it’s love or hormones: