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It seems impossible. There can’t possibly be someone out there.
You have been on every dating site. You have gone to dating events, bars, concerts, friend set-ups, community gatherings and are pretty sure you have met everyone on the planet.
And you like none of them. They all stink.
But for those who look closely and pay attention to the details, there will always be one.
One person who shows up when you least expect it.
One person who says yes. One person who doesn’t make you jump hoops to be with him/her.
One person who shows up, has something to offer and is willing to stick it out with you, no matter what. One person who likes you for your flaws and imperfections.
It may seem impossible but really anything is possible.
There are billions of people on this planet. What makes you think you’re so awful that there is no one created for you?
That is a lie.
Someone will show up. Someone good. Sift through the weeds. Pay attention to the red flags.
And amongst all the noise of bad online dates, weird people, flaky people and missed connections, someone will show up.