You want to date or you want to be alone. All of this is dependent on your perspective and current needs.
Dating someone or being single both have pro’s and cons– and it’s up to you to decide which “pros” are more desirable.
Here are the pros of being part of a couple versus being a swinging single:
1. Safe sex (usually)
Not only is the sex safe, but the sex is often reliable, enjoyable and experimental if you two so choose. When a relationship is safe and happy, often two people can really explore their desires and this is amazing. Not to mention without fear (usually) of STD’s etc. Of course, many people want a monogamous situation, and this will limit the ability to be with others.
2. Shared resources
When you’re part of a couple, you usually share mental, financial and physical resources. Two are better than one as the saying goes. You have someone to turn to and vice versa. It is very beneficial.
It does mean that you often cannot act without someone else weighing in on these resources.