3 Signs Your MIL Is Hell-Bent on Destroying You

The almighty mother-in-law. The one woman that is feared by all daughter-in-laws of the world. At least initially.

If you have the lucky fortune of being your MIL’s favorite daughter-in-law, congrats! You have achieved a status so many of us wish we could reach but sadly, never have or never do. If you have a difficult relationship with your MIL that either runs hot and cold or worse or is so brutal the two of you would fare well in a boxing ring, you’ll commiserate with these three harsh signs that your MIL wishes for your destruction.

Snubs Your Invites

Your mother-in-law would rather die, yes die, than go to a party, holiday, or any other occasion that the underling daughter-in-law is throwing. She somehow has to do her hair, feed the needy, raise money for the poor, and just about every other thing under the sun than attend a fete you’ve organized.

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Remember She’s Grandma & Act Accordingly,

Laura

Why Does Your MIL Dislike You After The Birth of Your Child?

You had her favorite and only grandchild and so your mother-in-law couldn’t be any more excited! Technically, you should be her favorite person, and for a while there, you were. She called and texted you constantly and couldn’t wait to hear more about how the baby was doing. She even asked how you felt after labor (or a C-section) and brought you a little postbirth present. You two were sort of like BFFs. Well, as close as you can be with someone who’s not your own mom and as close as she can be with someone who, well, took her son away. Sniff.

But now? Oh, it’s a whole different ball game. Before you could do no wrong, as the bearer of the greatest of all: the grandbaby. But now? Now you are doing everything wrong, according to your dear old mother-in-law. Here are three signs your MIL kind of hates you after having her grandchild.

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Eek!

Laura

10 No-Question-About-It Signs Your Mom HATES Your Wife

If your mother doesn’t like your wife, you probably have a good idea that she’s not happy with your better half. But my comprehensive list that your mom hates your wife will be the real tip-off as to whether your mom is #TeamWife or #TeamIWantMySonBack.

It’s no secret that mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws can clash from time-to-time. Typically, it’s simply a case of two strong personalities, two different personalities, or perhaps the case of one mom who can’t let her son go. For me, I was the hated wife and let me tell you: it sucked, plain and simple. There were many times I wish my ex handled the situation, but it’s hard to be between two women you love.

Men, remember this: you chose your wife. You chose to get married. You picked her as your family. Stand by her side and don’t let your mother’s hatred or anyone’s hatred get between you and your marriage or you will slowly watch as your marriage disintegrates. Here’s how to tell if your mom hates your wife.

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It’s the Truth, Pal,

Laura