Anyone can have a fun physical connection with someone else. Anyone can buy a gift. Send a gift card. Anyone can have a quick cuddle fest or Netflix and “chill.”
But it’s not so easy to love. To be there for someone. To make them feel special. To really get to know them. To include the person in their daily life.
If you’re “seeing” someone and wondering where the relationship lies, just ask yourself these questions and you’ll find that it’s pretty easy to see how much you really matter to someone:
- Is the person trying to get physical with you or getting physical with you, but hasn’t asked you on a date or included you in his/her hangouts with friends? If you answered yes, this person is taking the easy way out– and you don’t matter to him/her.
- Is the person available for you physically, but not emotionally? If this is a yes, this person isn’t invested in you beyond casual interactions.